THE ESSENCE OF A WOMAN
“Oh, I didn`t mean to !!!Not intencionally !”, “That`s not the way I am”...”I Never Realized I`m Doing That ! ”...”Am I doing That?”...”No , I do it out of Love !” ... ” Oh My , Oh Me , Is that what is Happening? Noo ! ”
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There is no telling when , how or why it may happen !
It just happens with a higher or lower degree of intensity !
TO LOVE THINGS AND USE PEOPLE , WHEN PEOPLE ARE MEANT TO BE LOVED AND THINGS TO BE USED !
Sometimes we just go half way…WE LOVE THINGS .
IT`s a natural fact of life , specially if you`re a person of habits, to love things…buy them, collect them , HAVING THEM !
And with all the direct and subliminar publicity , how can you escape?
The other half…is relative…We all use eachother somehow !
Since those relations happen in a healthy way …it´s good for all !
The nightmare happens when they both get together >>>loving things above people…Using people like they were less than things (the junk kind of things , not the one they value ) !
I `ve used the word “nightmare” above !
When you`re being used this way , you seem to be sleeping , with no waking up ,just enduring the pain , like it is something “normal”...You can “sleep like this for years , a lifetime , and you never realised what happened to your YOU !
Sometimes, somebody close to you , or your Own Self tries to wake you up , but you will only listen IF you`re not too “sleepy” to realize what is happening…
Very rarelly the “users” stop , because it`s confortable to them , and aparently to you as well…nor not!
This will be a burden you will carry all your life , even if you get up , and get out of bed…
If you`re AWAKE ( totally) it will be a constant pain…
If you`re ALIVE (to live instead of exist) , you will find a way out to turn that pain into strengh … And you`ll probably be stronger and aware of dangers than the mos of us…
This is all in an ultimate degree…
Usually the collors are more pale , with faded frontiers…
That`s where MOST people are…
What shall we do about it?
Because in so many times we are the BOTH entities >>>the one who uses , and the one who is used !
If we have THAT AWARENESS , God Bless you …Be your self police person…In favour of the victim , wich is YOU , or against the user , wich is you !!!
A Pure Heart and a setted Mind will help you…
Ultimatly…To begin…LOVE WILL HELP YOU !
WILL HELP ME…
WILL HELP US ALL …
The Goals of the “Papalagui” (just used the word “papalagui” because I think it fits perfectly here ) : people living by the concept that ” Men`s Freedom” consists in CHOOSING HIS/ HER OWN SLAVERY !
They work 8 hours a day (those who live In countries with efective Labour Laws) , but with the goal of being promoted inside their souls , therefore working then 12 hours a day!
They get married , and start having no time for themselves !
They seek God , and they feel compelled to go to cults , and religious cerimonies! -
Everything that is important in this life – LOVE / WORK / FAITH - turns out to become a too heavy burden !
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It doesn´t have to be that way …
Let`s look inside ourselves with “HUMBLE and TRUTHFUL seeking eyes” , and not “SUCESSFUL Seeking eyes ” !
Let`s find out what trully makes us happy and balanced , and not what fashion , family,frustration , or other outsider situation might induce us to determine what is better for us!
Unfortunatly , It is my belive that we from stage to stage…
And maybe that`s how it ought to be…
The soul of a 18 year old person , is not the same as when he reaches the age of 50 !
The priorities are diferent , and that is normal…
All we can hope is that he learns fast that those 12 hours have a great price he has to pay later on ! The indiference towards his inner self or the True Essence of God , is not scheduled cerimonies , but eveywhere , anywhere !
That there is a LIFE , outside his EXISTENCE !
HOPE FOR ALL OF THOSE IN THE MACHINE !
We are not perfect beings , but in the path of perfectioning ourselves…
This is the place !
This is the Time which was given to us All !
This is the Chance !
The strengh for the CHANGE is within OURSELVES , acording to the intensity of our desire to GROW , and our Faith !
AND THIS IS THE WAY TO GROW !
We may fall again…
And we should rise again , and carry on !
In the end of this existence , we will certainly be quite advanced in our earthly path , if we get up each time we fall , and start to walk again , with all the knowledge we have acquired with our falls , and avoiding the things that made us stumble !
Like a baby literally learns to walk and slowly starts getting his/her balance in a natural way…
We must be humble towards LIFE and realize that we are babies as well …in the tender sense of the word !
We should never take us too seriously …For we may fall in the next step !